Love Me or Leave Me

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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby mikeydv » Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:51 pm

to Haymarket addict: I suggest that your feeling about what you call "jazzy" songs may have something to do with your age. I am going to guess you are under 30, in which case you are too used to what is described as music today. I call what I am able to hear on the radio "mostly garbage". Therefore, I seldom, if ever, turn on the radio, unless it is to a country music station because there are literally (at least in Baltimore) NO stations that feature any music further back than 1965. It Seems the entrance of the Beatles is what makes modern music...the Trash Years. Granted, The Beatles had a few (very few) good songs; what they needed was for Doris to sing them! (i.e., Oooblidah oooblidee from the tv special).
Actually, and for your edification, the songs in LMOLM are NOT classified as jazz; they are classified as American Pop Standards...songs that are classic and have lasted for many decades and sung by anyone who has class and taste. I know you are trying to "get with it"; I am afraid you are a product of the current music generation who is sadly in need of a few courses of TRUE MUSIC APPRECIATION.
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby Haymarketaddict » Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:32 pm

OH, I didn't wanna start any discussion about music taste in here - and I certainly don't wanna argue about it. I don't think you *can* really argue about good or "trash" music. .. I just think to each his own :wink:
But I do think the more I listen to the songs the more I like some of those I didn't like at the beginning and that's what I mean when I say I'm getting into those songs - Marion is doing a good job :lol:
Oh and by the way - I'm over 30 :wink:
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby BabeWilliams » Thu Sep 04, 2008 6:04 pm

I'm under 30, and I LOVE it!!! I love anything Doris Day sings, period...lol
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby mikeydv » Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:04 pm

To Haymarket and Babe Williams:
I apologize to both of you if my comments, in any way, insulted either of you. They were not meant to do that. I think I was just reacting in general to what music we are able to hear on the radio today; for me, there is no choice. I don't care if they call it "range" or "rap" or "hiphop" or whatever...for me, it sounds like TRASH. And the other thing that gets me, is that the "female singers" all sound exactly the same; there is no distinction; just degrees of yelling and lack of enunciation with an abundant amount of moaning and groaning. For those who like it, I say more power to you.
But consider this. I go to the gym 3 to 5 x a week. There, we are FORCED to listen to the music they are playing at way too loud a volume. So, not only are they damaging my ear drums, but they are making me sick to my stomach with what they consider music. There is just NO comparison to what is around today, and what we took for granted when Doris was at her peak.
So once again, my apologies to you, ladies. I did not mean to direct the comments to you. Actually, Babe...I think you should bring Doris back. I know you are a singer and would like to be in show business...why don't you become The Doris Day of the 21st Century???
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby Daisy June » Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:41 pm

mikeydv wrote:To Haymarket and Babe Williams:
I apologize to both of you if my comments, in any way, insulted either of you. They were not meant to do that. I think I was just reacting in general to what music we are able to hear on the radio today; for me, there is no choice. I don't care if they call it "range" or "rap" or "hiphop" or whatever...for me, it sounds like TRASH. And the other thing that gets me, is that the "female singers" all sound exactly the same; there is no distinction; just degrees of yelling and lack of enunciation with an abundant amount of moaning and groaning. For those who like it, I say more power to you.
But consider this. I go to the gym 3 to 5 x a week. There, we are FORCED to listen to the music they are playing at way too loud a volume. So, not only are they damaging my ear drums, but they are making me sick to my stomach with what they consider music. There is just NO comparison to what is around today, and what we took for granted when Doris was at her peak.
So once again, my apologies to you, ladies. I did not mean to direct the comments to you. Actually, Babe...I think you should bring Doris back. I know you are a singer and would like to be in show business...why don't you become The Doris Day of the 21st Century???



I do have to agree with Mike on some of this. I am just agreeing with what he refers to the , rap, hip hop and that kind of music I don't care for. I guess it's the generation I grew up in. You cannot understand what they are singing these days. It is screaming and very loud. Last year when I was still working I decided to call a radio station that is well known in Atlanta and I left a message for the D.J. He did return my call (which I was shocked). He said how can I help you Carol. I said can you answer me a question and he said he would try. I wanted to know why there is not radio stations now playing music from the late 40's and the wonderful 50's pop music? I gave him examples" Doris Day, Frank Sinatra, Andy Wiliams, Rosemary Clooney, Perry Como, The McQuire Sisters, Jo Stafford, Steve and Edyie, etc. He said well Carol, it's this way, that music is not what people want to here. I told him I want to. I said I guarantee you if they had a station like that you would be surprised at the people from my generation and maybe a little older would listen to it everyday. He said, well if you can find someone that wants to spend money on something like that let me know. He said I tell you what you need to do. Go on the internet and I will give you some websites to listen to that kind of music. I said I know what they are. I said I want to turn on the radio and be able to turn to that kind of music and not put in a cd. He said, well those songs in that era are not what people want to hear now days. I said, I want to listen to them. Well, still no radio station in my area. It's really a shame, that most stations you get are not worth listening to. That just my opinion. I know the generation today like the music of today, but that still doesn't mean we can't have a choice on the radio.. What do you all think?

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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby howard » Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:59 pm

You're so right, Carol. Here in Los Angeles, a few stations have tried the Great American Songbook format, which I really enjoyed, but unfortunately, they just didn't get good ratings so they didn't last. There isn't much good out there today. Some of the singers are okay, but what they do with their voices! Oy! They scream, and go through all kinds of vocal histrionics - AND you can rarely understand what they're singing about. But, the kids like it, so what can you do?
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby miss maxwell » Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:17 pm

This is developing into an interesting discussion. Carol, how I identify with what you say -- turning on the radio and being able to listen to the oldies is a dream of mine as well. I speak as a youngster who is certainly into and (partly but largely) enjoys today's music but whose heart beats for the oldies (40's, 50's -- right up to the disco era actually but that's another story). However, living in Greece, such a chance not only is slight: it simply doesn't exist. The internet and a personal collection that keeps blossoming (which I wouldn't even dare to dream of when this journey started) has always been the only way and I'm more than greatful that there are such resources.
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby Haymarketaddict » Fri Sep 05, 2008 5:38 pm

No need to apologize Mike - everyone is entitled to their own opinion especially what is classified as music taste (actually the same goes for movies I guess). Who is to judge that this or that music is trash and the other isn't? I think its all a matter of TASTE - that's all. I absolute LOVE many of Doris' songs - I just really can't find anything for me in the "big band music" or some other songs - equally do I like a lot of todays music, there are definitely a LOT of good singers around today as well - on the other hand I hate techno or rap or hip hop music - totally not for me. I just take bits of everything for me ... I'm sure you are right that this has to do with growing up during a certain time .... but I still wouldn't say that todays music is just trash :mrgreen:

hmm.... I'd say this goes slightly of topic .... I'm kinda sorry I started it :|
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby jmichael » Fri Sep 05, 2008 6:53 pm

This film is a classic. It stands among the best film musical biographies ever. The chemistry between Doris and Cagney is red hot. Doris has never acted or sang better in a film. This part was a real departure for her and she rose to the occasion beautifully. As for the songs, they are all classics, or near classics, and the musical arrangements suited Doris to a tee. I don't understand how anyone cannot enjoy the songs in this film.

Sidenote: the clip of her sexy rendition of "Ten Cents A Dance" provoked wolf whistles in the theaters when I saw "That's Entertainment-Part 2." Yeah, baby.

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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby BabeWilliams » Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:58 pm

Mike, no offense was taking at this end. But even if there were your last comment would've saved you..

mikeydv wrote:Actually, Babe...I think you should bring Doris back. I know you are a singer and would like to be in show business...why don't you become The Doris Day of the 21st Century???


lol.. I loved this! When I dream of becoming an actress and singer, I always think how awesome it would be if they would call me the Doris Day of the 21st century. Whoever they are.. I think it would even be great just to be compared to her!
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby mikeydv » Sat Sep 06, 2008 12:04 pm

Babe: Remember what Doris said in her last tv interview?
"I only wanted to become a good wife, a good mother, raise lots of kids and animals, and live happily ever after. And I became a movie star. If I an do it, anybody can!" So, GO FOR IT!!!
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby BabeWilliams » Sat Sep 06, 2008 1:07 pm

mikeydv wrote:Babe: Remember what Doris said in her last tv interview?
"I only wanted to become a good wife, a good mother, raise lots of kids and animals, and live happily ever after. And I became a movie star. If I an do it, anybody can!" So, GO FOR IT!!!

Oh believe me I will! If I have anything to say about it I'll be a HUGE star. But I want to be different from other stars. I want to be married only once, I want to continue in my relationship with God. And I plan to wear underwear..lol :lol:
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby Daisy June » Sat Sep 06, 2008 1:24 pm

BabeWilliams wrote:
mikeydv wrote:Babe: Remember what Doris said in her last tv interview?
"I only wanted to become a good wife, a good mother, raise lots of kids and animals, and live happily ever after. And I became a movie star. If I an do it, anybody can!" So, GO FOR IT!!!

Oh believe me I will! If I have anything to say about it I'll be a HUGE star. But I want to be different from other stars. I want to be married only once, I want to continue in my relationship with God. And I plan to wear underwear..lol :lol:



Oh thank goodness for that, please don't embarrass you GA grandmother. :oops:

: Carol :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby BabeWilliams » Sat Sep 06, 2008 9:10 pm

carol_bcd wrote:
BabeWilliams wrote:
mikeydv wrote:Babe: Remember what Doris said in her last tv interview?
"I only wanted to become a good wife, a good mother, raise lots of kids and animals, and live happily ever after. And I became a movie star. If I an do it, anybody can!" So, GO FOR IT!!!

Oh believe me I will! If I have anything to say about it I'll be a HUGE star. But I want to be different from other stars. I want to be married only once, I want to continue in my relationship with God. And I plan to wear underwear..lol :lol:



Oh thank goodness for that, please don't embarrass you GA grandmother. :oops:

: Carol :lol: :lol: :lol:


lol, I knew you'd appreciate that!
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby ellenarden » Wed Oct 15, 2008 7:34 pm

When I was younger I didn't particularly care for this movie. Fortunately as I matured so did my movie tastes. This is now one of my favorites. What surfaced was a previously unknown depth which certainly should have been explored more often. And, she was smokin' in that blue dress.

Finally, everytime I see the number "Shakin' the Blues Away" and the last number from "Lullaby of Broadway" I immediately remember that the doctor's said this girl would always have a difficult time walking and would never dance again. Ha! I guess she showed them. :lol:
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby suzie » Wed Nov 12, 2008 7:35 pm

I found this movie to be one of doris days most meatiest roles, and did she do a great job on it. Cagney,(like sinatra in young at heart ) seemed very unlikely spouse for doris, but the movie worked very well. Too bad they cut out some of the parts that doris thought should have been left in. I wish doris would have tried her hand at directing.
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby puck » Fri Dec 19, 2008 6:59 am

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She looks fabulous, and het acting and singing is wonderful, I do love this movie.
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby littlepinetree » Wed Feb 04, 2009 4:36 pm

Wow, another great one!
The life of Ruth Etting is a life I'm sure Doris Day can relate too, so she did such a great job with the difficult scenes. Her singing was really great, and the songs wonderful!
The clothes were beautiful. My favorite was the pinkish dress with silver glitter on the top, near the beginning of the movie. That color on her looks great with her coloring. (not really pink, not sure what it is!)
I'll buy both the movie and the soundtrack to this one! :D
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby ray » Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:51 pm

I rewatched this great film again the other day and it is a fantastic showpiece for Doris's singing and acting. Truely timeless and an ageless film. As is Doris herself! She should have gotten an Oscar for this film!
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby melancholy » Sat Feb 21, 2009 1:52 pm

ray wrote:I rewatched this great film again the other day and it is a fantastic showpiece for Doris's singing and acting. Truely timeless and an ageless film. As is Doris herself! She should have gotten an Oscar for this film!

With the oscars coming up I ended up at the TCM-archives -site and there are lovely behind-the-scene pictures to be seen.Lovely one of how Doris' hair was done and her make-up.
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby Theodomus » Sat Feb 21, 2009 6:17 pm

Would you have a link?
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby melancholy » Sat Feb 21, 2009 7:15 pm

Theodomus wrote:Would you have a link?

you go to "tcm.com"
Then classic movies list appears.I clicked on James Stewart until "the man who knew too" much came up.
Then you see the cast and you click on Doris.Then her biography is there and you click on "photomaterial".There are two behind the scenes-pictures.Also from "please don't eat the daisies".

Hope you get there,it was by chance i saw it.Rare photographs.
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby Theodomus » Sun Feb 22, 2009 3:22 am

Thanks, I'll check. :-)
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby chele_belle » Sun Jun 28, 2009 6:00 pm

Some pics from Love Me Or Leave Me...

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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby daybyday08 » Sun Jun 28, 2009 6:03 pm

There great never saw those before, thanks!
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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby Peter Flapper » Sat Sep 26, 2009 6:33 am

Hi all,

A few years ago we had a thread about Ruth Etting, I couldn't find it now. But we had little information on Ruth Etting. Today I found on Youtube a lot of her songs. I give you the link to Ruths version of Ten Cents a Dance:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpU-mcgBJxE&feature=fvw

If you wish to find more, just type Ruth Etting and you'll find a lot of her songs.

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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby webmaster » Sat Sep 26, 2009 6:49 am

Thanks Peter - you know you can post YouTube videos here by highlighting the URL and clicking on the youtube button above. (Copy link from YouTube URL link above Embed link) Click Preview to see if it's working.


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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby webmaster » Sat Sep 26, 2009 6:51 am

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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby webmaster » Sat Sep 26, 2009 6:54 am

I didn't know Frankie had covered it:

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Re: Love Me or Leave Me

UNREAD_POSTby sunnygail » Thu Dec 31, 2009 7:46 pm

Love Me was truly one of her best dramatic efforts . Very good movie. BILL
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